You can make an immediate and positive difference in your relationships.

• Why Are Our Love Relationships so Difficult?
• What is it about our closest relationships that can be such a source of joy and suffering?

As couples we don’t care about insights into our childhood. We don’t want to be reasonable and learn to negotiate and we don’t want to learn rules for fighting effectively.

What happens in love relationships is more elemental, deeper and more essential. Our love relationships are emotional bonds. They are about our innate need for safe emotional connection.

I work with couples in therapy to change the quality of their connection and the level of love they experience in their relationship. There maybe wounds and hurts to heal and work through  and then there are essential and specific skills to sustain a long term and satisfying love relationship.

I use the Gottman Method Couples therapy and Sue Johnson’s Emotionally Focused Therapy with my couples counseling.

 

If you would like to talk about your situation call me at 415 847 8842 for a free phone consultation.

 

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